Due to today’s hectic lifestyle, work stress, competition at every level and then compression, people get angry with their family, friends and partners or get angry and shout as soon as they talk about any topic. Why do we raise our voices and start yelling at people when we argue? Do you also do this? If yes, then it is not good for your ability to be a better communicator and a secure collaborator, so try to change this habit as soon as possible.
Let us tell you that in a research it has been revealed that people who raise their voice while angry, they lack confidence.
In 2002 a team of Stanford researchers reported on three surveys in the journal “Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin” that highlighted that participants rated themselves as less vulnerable to bias than their peers or “average Americans”. . With this people stuck to their point even after hearing the explanation of being biased with themselves
The shouting of the people also shows how aggressive he is. Loud talking or shouting creates more stress, the louder the sound, the more the tension will increase which is not good for both physical and mental health.
Our feeling towards the person in front of us has a greater impact than our voice and is remembered for a longer time than the words actually spoken. That is why we may or may not remember the words spoken, but the behavior done at that time is definitely remembered.
Yelling can be a way to take control of any situation and dominate another person. The ‘listener’ waits for the speaker to stop to avoid this verbal attack.
There are also many people who use verbal force instead of physical force to stop threatening behavior. Trying to suppress or silence the person in front of him with his voice. Therefore, it is important that we control our voice to a volume or tone that does not indicate aggressive behavior or dominance over the other person. Do not behave in such a way with your parents, partner or friends which is harmful to your health as well as your relationship.